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Thursday, 7 November 2019

Second-hand, Borrowed or Vintage - it's the Future! #Chicandstylish #LINKUP

Morning my lovely friends.
How's your week been?
Nice to get away for the weekend isn't it?  Well that's just what I did recently with my mum and sister.  Mum's choice to head off to Rye in East Sussex for a relaxing couple of days - so barring the walk up hill to the town - opps! it really was.  We had rooms for two nights in the River Haven Hotel which served it's purpose with comfortable rooms, decent meals and a bar - what more does a girl need!
We arrived on Sunday and headed up into the town stopping at The Mermaid Inn for a light lunch and welcomed drink. This quaint little hotel is a grade II listed building and boasts 7 ghosts that have been seen throughout the hotel! The building has 600 years of history & has many stories about it's colourful past.  We enjoyed hearing all about the smugglers, ghosts and celebrities that frequented the venue - and we were very enchanted to hear that my sister's family were descendants of a particular smuggler and ghost, John Diamond,  who was mentioned in their history as being part of the infamous Hawkhurst Gang.  We were shown his named room and also the cellar - I have to admit I had goose-bumps whilst the stories were told and the rooms were viewed - I'd love to return and actually stay in the hotel one night - imagine if the ghosts were real!!!!
Sunday evening we stayed put in our hotel, relishing a roast dinner with a couple of drinks in the bar. Feeling the cold we returned to my mum's room with drinks where we chatted more before heading off to bed.  The rooms were just right having tea/coffee and TV's in the room - it was rather strange to have the room to myself - let alone the remote control - ha ha!
Monday was my mum's birthday - we had breakfast where she opened her presents & cards, I can't remember the last time we were together in the morning for her special day!
Rye town is full of interesting shops, tea rooms, pubs and restaurants & we also partook in a cream tea and lunch in Haydens a small family-run B&B in the heart of Rye overlooking the town salts.  Prevalent in Rye were plenty of charity/thrift shops, they seem to be in abundance in every town and whilst I'm not a huge fan of shopping in them - I do like to borrow clothes from my daughters' - well they borrow mine enough!

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As sustainable-conscious consumers carry on buying pre-loved items a new study suggests that the UK's second hand item market is set to surge in the coming years, re-enforcing reports it could overtake the fast fashion market by 2029.  With that in mind, and more charity shops & vintage clothes sales springing up by the month the latest trend of on-line buying for second hand bargains is becoming a really popular way to buy pre-loved garments and accessories.  Having already heard of Ebay that sells millions of second hand items - there's also Market place, Depop and Micolet - a Spanish based company that is expanding into the UK selling pre-loved designer and high street brands alike.

I'm wearing a borrowed Coast dress that belongs to my daughter.  I was pleased to find the dress fitted, albeit slightly tight on the bust, but still very wearable.  I love the up - down hem line which is a big trend at the moment.  Black dresses are essential for the black-tie-dinner-dance scenario, this cute number with flamboyant red roses on the bottom is sure to get you noticed for the trendy lady you are!
It's so good to get more wear out of an outfit, so sharing with friends and family seems a good way to do it.  Some of you might go to an annual dinner dance, us ladies don't want to be seen in the same dress the next year do we!  What about buying from a pre-loved site or sharing with a friend?  You can see when I borrowed my friends long black dress for a Style not Age challenge last year.


I'm featuring this outfit on the blog next Monday - showing off the gorgeous dark red sling bags I was gifted from Lotus Shoes.  They have an interesting detail on the heel - do stop by to check them out!




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Favourite blog post from last week is ... Welcome to Jill - Stylish at Sixty who's had a very similar life to mine with a daughter's wedding and holiday in the north of Spain - do stop by the blog for a read about her delightful wedding and holidays with family - my kind of blogger!



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So much love for you joining me today, can't wait to see what you'e all been wearing lately.
Photos c/o Esther Ruby - many thanks my lovely.
Bye for now. X
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39 comments

  1. Thank you so much for sharing my post. I started blogging 2 years ago after retirement and being encouraged by my daughter to take up a hobby. Before then I had never read a blog and started to look for fashion and lifestyle of similar aged people (people who are not a perfect size 12/14) There are so few out there that this is how stylishatsixty started. Once again a very big thank you.
    Regards - Jill stylishatsixty
    www.stylishatsixty.wordpress.com

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    1. Well done and congratulations - its a big learning curve for me, how about you? You are welcome, it's good to see your family at the wedding - my daughter didn't want photos on the blog, so I haven't featured my dress or anyone else, but I'd really like to. x

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  2. I hope you had a fantastic time in Rye! I love that town! Would have loved to read more about your trip!

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    1. Brilliant, I may try and do a more elaborate one soon. We are going again at the end of November, just for the night with hubby and friends. x

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  3. I know how special it feels to wake up with your mum. I used to love staying with mum during my trips to Essex. The dress looks gorgeous Jacqui. Hope it was a lovely day xx

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    1. Awe thank you Laurie, I'm trying to make the most of it as I know she wont be around forever. xx

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  4. What a glamorous dress Jacqui, perfect for your weekend in Rye. I have never been there but Nancy is always going there too so I feel I must, oneday.

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    1. It's lovely Gail, and I felt very special in it. Yes you must try to go there is was fab. x

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  5. How fun that you had a few days away with you mum. That dress is absolutely beautiful...dramatic and chic!
    Debbie
    www.fashionfairydust.com

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    1. It was good fun, with lots of lovely shops and cafes to see - the town model was good too! x

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  6. Jacqui, you are stunning, my friend! What a beautiful dress and you wear it so well. I am a huge fan of second hand shopping and have been shopping second hand much more than new for the past year. I definitely need to be in the mood to sift through the second hand racks and I can get a little grossed out...but everything I buy goes directly into the washing machine as soon as I get home. I have found so many amazing pieces at second hand shops. Thanks for sharing this interesting information about the direction we are heading with it. It is so much better for the environment!

    Shelbee
    www.shelbeeontheedge.com

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    1. Awe you are so kind. The dress made me feel very special. Micolet is worth looking at, although I'm not sure they are in the US yet. x

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  7. That dress is stunning Jaqui! Simply stunning!

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  8. What a special weekend! Rye sounds like such a quaint town! That dress is beautiful on you! So fun that you can borrow from your daughter!

    Jill - Doused in Pink

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    1. A wonderful little town, with so much character. Worth a visit one day. x

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  9. That dress is gorgeous! So fancy!
    xo,
    Kellyann

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  10. Jacqui you look so beautiful in this dress! Wow!
    XO Tina

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  11. What a fun weekend getaway!! A haunted hotel sounds very fun! I love this dress on you and your shoes are amazing too!

    xx, Elise
    www.sparkleandslippers.blogspot.com

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    1. It was good fun, and the hotel was really interesting. x Thanks x

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  12. What a stunning dress! You look lovely! So fun to be able to share with your daughter.
    www.chezmireillefashiontravelmom.com

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    1. Many thanks, really pleased that I could get into it! x

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  13. Sounds like you had a fabulous weekend! The Mermaid Inn looks like a great place to stop for lunch. I checked out the website link and it's definitely a place I'd love to visit if I only lived closer!!
    The dress looks wonderful on you. Isn't it great when we can wear our children's clothes? My daughter is 13 now and since I am petite, I can now wear her clothes (and she borrows mine too :-)
    Ellibelle's Corner

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    1. It really was great fun, nice to be with my mum, am going back with hubby and some friends at the end of the month. Gad you can wear your daughters clothes too. xx

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  14. I was eyeing those shoes! Ill have to see...What a lovely time you had. Id love to do a little excursion with my sis and mom. The place sounds very nice and I love historic buildings with ghost stories. We stayed at a place in Savannah like that! Id want to see a ghost! That dress is very pretty and elegant, as is the setting!
    jess xx
    www.elegantlydressedandstylish.com

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    1. Ahh I'll tell you all about them on Monday, they are super cute and I'll be wearing them come the festive season too. x

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  15. Too kind, so chuffed with it. I love getting dressed up, but don't get the chance very often. x

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  16. Your dress is so beautiful and glamorous! You look like a queen!

    Lizzie
    www.lizzieinlace.com

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  17. Happy birthday to your mum! what a beautiful dress you wore too! I love second hand shopping - my mum and grandma do it often and sometimes they pick up things for me when they do. I don't get to do it as often as I'd like with the little ones in tow, haha!

    I do borrow clothes from my sister on occasion too - she like to borrow from me as well, although being further apart now as she lives about an hour away we don't swap clothes as much as we used to!

    Thanks for the link up. Hope that you have been having a great week :) It's to be super hot today so we are going to try get out early and avoid the heat!

    Away From Blue

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    1. Thanks so much Mica, Mum had a wonderful time. My sister and I have similar styles, she often buys things I have as I do to her! Jacqui x

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  18. Such a gorgeous dress! So nice you were able to borrow this from your daughter, and it looks beautiful on you. Glad to read you had a wonderful trip and a great birthday!

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    1. Yes I'm, so lucky Jennie, pleased it fitted - lol. x

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  19. Oh my goodness, what a glamorous dress Jacqui! It sounds like you've been having a very sociable time of late, how lovely for you. Second-hand dressing is the way forward if we're all trying to be greener in our purchases. I love that you can still get the buzz of shopping but that it's recycled too. Well done on this piece x

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    1. Isn't it just! Just want to wear it again, along with the shoes. Although the shoes will look just as nice with my black dresses too! x Thanks Anna. x

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  20. Doesn't Jill look gorgeous in her wedding outfit, as do you in your post frock. Sadly my days of dinner dances are well gone, yet I can't bear to let go of my ball gowns and cocktail numbers. Sounds like you had a very special weekend in Rye with your mum, lovely stuff.
    Hugs, Mary x.
    thepoutingpensioner.blogspot.com

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    1. She really does Mary, awe that's a shame as it's so nice to dress up in long dresses! I've hardly ever got the chance to dress up like this so it made a nice change! Need to wear it again soon though! xx

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